19 Years In and Counting

So, it's been 19 years since I've met my hubby. ツ Wow I can't believe it myself sometimes. There's been good times and bad, times when I've wanted to kill him and chop his body up into tiny pieces and bury him all over the earth but for the most part, it's been absolutely the best times of my life. In him I have a best friend, a husband, someone I can confide in and tell my most terrible secrets to. I have someone who tells me what's real and not what I need to hear when it really matters most. He's my protector and my provider and he's also my partner in everything. I know I'm blessed to have someone like him in my life. Now, don't get it twisted, he's a pain in the ass like most men BUT he's never given me a reason to leave, or want to leave. Most of my friends envy my relationship and it's for good reason. I do have something special.

Now he's not the only reason this relatonship has lasted this long tho. I play a BIG part in that as well. I'm secure in who I am as a woman and a person so I don't worry about things that are irrelevant. I never ask if I'm good enough for him because I know I am. Shit, he's lucky he got somebody like me who understands that he is a man and he needs to breath and he underatands that I do too as a woman, so we don't bump heads often. Compromise and underatanding is key in a successful relationship. Also, you gotta listen to each other. Don't think for each other, talk to each other. If you dont listen, how will you know what to do and what not to do. How will you know what he wants and how will he know what you want? It's simple if you take the time and use your mind. ツ It doesn't have to be rocket science. ♥